Frequently Asked Questions and Observations About Women
by MGTOW Brother
What is this website? Who are you people?
MGTOW Monks.
MGTOW stands for Men Going Their Own Way. MGTOW Monks are men going their own way, who reject relationships with women, and at the same time, abstain from sexual activity with women.
Society has failed us. We are an army of disenfranchised men. We refuse to be slaves. We do not want any part in a society that is structurally rigged against us. We are going our own way! We are are fed up with a society that coddles women, exalts women, and empowers women, while at the same time disadvantaging men, discriminating against men, and dis-empowering men. A misandrist society that hates, demonizes, destroys, and falsely accuses men. It can go to hell!
Women are not equal with men in terms of intellectual capacity. IQ tests show that on average men score at least slightly higher compared to women. More importantly, women “think,” in an emotional way. To be more accurate, they emote. Men think rationally, at least more than women do. A society that is gynocentric is a society that will inevitably fail.
The matriarchy demands that men pay for women, support women, work for women, and spend their entire lives serving them, while getting almost nothing in return but pain, lies, disappointment, and betrayal. Men are waking up. Our numbers will continue to grow as society continues to screw men over at record levels. The more the matriarchy tightens her grip around us, the more men will slip through her fingers!
More and more men are recognizing that this system is rigged against them, and that the only winning move is not to participate in it. When you realize that a game is rigged, you don’t keep playing and hope for the best, you minimize your losses and leave.
What are some of the reasons that men become MGTOW Monks?
LOVE
I think that most men have wanted to be loved by women, at least at some point in their lives. However, they find out that women are as a group incapable of love. What they call love is a passing infatuation at best. They may even think they love a man, only to realize shortly later, or much later, anywhere from a day later, to 10 years, or even 50 years later, that they don’t! Most women today have shallow short relationships with men. The relationship is all about what the man can do for her and how the man makes her feel. It is one sided. That isn’t love.
Women want what they can’t have, and don’t want what they can have. Sooner or later, when a woman knows she’s got a man, she usually loses interest. If a woman knows a man really loves her, she decides that he must be worthless, because she knows deep down that she doesn’t deserve to be loved. She knows that she is a horrible selfish person. She can’t love or respect him, because she knows she is unworthy of love and respect herself. This explains in part why women like “bad” boys or men.
When do women respect men? Women respect men, at least to a point, for not respecting them! That includes me personally. Don’t believe me? I had several extremely angry heated arguments with women that I had not known long. I called them out on their bullshit, and I didn’t hold back at all. I met them mere hours, or even an hour before the argument. These women offered me sex after! One of them had a boyfriend, and still offered me sex! Women are CRAZY! (I didn’t have sex with them by the way!)
A lot of women talk about love, and may even think about “love” a lot. They have no idea what love is. For them it is some sort of temporary feeling of infatuation and lust toward a man. What is real love? Real love isn’t some infatuation based on someones looks, or a superficial impression of who you think they are. Real love is based on knowing a person for a long period of time, sharing thoughts, ideas, values, a commitment, and mutually accepting one another. A person worthy of love has earned another person’s trust and respect over a long period of time. Real love is extremely rare between men and women today. It is virtually unheard of!
COMMITMENT, BETRAYAL AND ADULTERY
Half of all marriages fail, and and most of the divorces are initiated by women. Are most men who stay married that happy? How many relationships even last long enough to get to the point of a marriage, or for marriage to come up? Almost none.
Women are not reliable. One woman psychologist says that more than 50% of women will cheat on their spouse at some point. Some sources say 14% of women admit to cheating. How many do it, but don’t admit it? Or do it, but justify it to themselves in such a way that they don’t count it as adultery? Generally, studies say women are more likely to commit adultery compared to men.
WOMEN DON’T TRUST WOMEN AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU!
Anyone who thinks that women are somehow morally superior to men is an ignoramus. Don’t be stupid. Most women will betray you in some way, sooner or later, if you stick around long enough! The truth is, women know the truth about women. Have you ever met the woman who has only male friends? I have met several who say that women are liars, backstabbers, and drama queens, so they only befriend men!
Those women who do have “female friends,” invariably don’t trust them, and often secretly hate them. What do women do when alone in a group? They bad mouth other women! (When they aren’t vetting some scheme against a man.) Am I wrong? Have you ever listened to a group of women talking among themselves? Who would want FRIENDS like THAT? You would have to be stupid to think that these are good friends. They build themselves up by literally tearing down other people.
Gossiping and bad mouthing other people behind their backs are the favorite pastimes of women! Most women are boring, and not very interesting or intelligent. My biggest problem with them is their lack of character. Even if you could find a woman who didn’t have bad character, what are the odds that she would be be an interesting person, or have anything intelligent to say at the same time?
WOMEN CANNOT OR WILL NOT COMMUNICATE!
How many men have been in a relationship with a woman, and she simply vanishes? She disappears, stops returning calls or e-mails, and he is left wondering if she is sick, hurt, or dead? She doesn’t have the maturity or the character to tell the man she decided to break up with him! Kind and thoughtful men are left worrying about someone who refused to act like an adult, wondering what happened to her. Eventually they may track her down, and finally discover the truth. Why the games and the bullshit? What is wrong with YOU CRAZY FEMALES? I thought you were “strong and empowered?” I know a guy this happened to about six times. It happened to several other friends of mine as well.
How many men have been around a woman, and she simply stopped talking. She had a vague look of disgust on her face. You asked her what’s wrong, repeatedly. Nothing is wrong, she said. Later, or much later, she explodes in a torrent of anger to tell you what has upset her! Usually, its something petty, stupid, or even imagined! Sometimes it is a simple misunderstanding, that could have been easily cleared up. Men CANNOT HEAR what WOMEN DO NOT SAY! Why the stupid games? Women would rather get angry and argue than solve a problem! THEY CANNOT COMMUNICATE FOR SHIT!
I know a man who had to deal with some business issues with a woman, unfortunately. He thought the woman in question was a very dear friend, spanning several years. She was much older than him. He reached out to her several times to discuss a matter, in the most polite way possible. She always had a different contrived excuse for why she couldn’t talk, so he continued trying to reach out. He is a thoroughly honest person, and naively assumed the woman’s bullshit excuses were legitimate. It was a business matter they were both involved in, so he could not simply give up or go away.
Eventually, the woman told her attorney that he was “calling her daily and demanding money.” He didn’t call her daily, he called occasionally, and wrote some e-mails. HE NEVER demanded any money, at any time! He simply wanted to discuss an issue with her, and see how she wished to proceed on it. He submitted some information to her, which she said was very helpful, her attorney later said it was not helpful at all! He met her on a couple occasions, and received contradictory explanations each time. With women you are NEVER safe! If you have any business dealings with women, or see any women for any professional services, try to end it. WOMEN are just too CRAZY, and CRAZY is DANGEROUS!
If you have a wife, or girlfriend, or even a female friend, who constantly claims people have wronged her, lied to her, or hurt her, take a good look at HER! The odds are she is crazy, and cannot get along with anyone! If she cheated on another guy before, or dumped an ex cruelly, why do you think she won’t do it to you? I knew a guy who had a girl friend who told him that she hated her father. Later she said that she loved her father. She claimed an ex was harassing her. He took this very seriously, and thoroughly investigated the matter. She later admitted she made it all up, just to get attention! If you are dealing with crazy, you better RUN NOW, because she WILL HURT YOU!
WOMEN HAVE NO ACCOUNTABILITY!
There is a growing trend among cucked male feminists, who are in relationships with women, to openly accept women having sex with other men! Their “experts,” assure them that this is “good” for the relationship! Society warns us not to “judge.” At this point in time, women can literally do anything, and demand men accept it!
If women become morbidly obese, men aren’t allowed to point out the health risks, or gripe about it. If women commit adultery, shut up its her choice! If women kill unborn babies, shut up, its her choice! If women murder new born babies, “they were stressed, it isn’t their fault!” Women literally get away with ANYTHING!
Men doing the exact same things that women do are rightly criticized or condemned, but when women do them, they get a complete pass! Men are routinely sentenced in court longer then women for the exact same crimes. Women have absolutely no accountability to anyone! This is the perfect formula for creating a SOCIOPATH! Most women have become SOCIOPATHS!
PATERNITY FRAUD
A large number of women lie about paternity. Rather than admit that they were slutting around with different men, most women who are married, cohabiting, or in a long term relationship with a man are going to lie about paternity. That is a fact. The government is their accomplice. The state doesn’t care who the real father is, they just want some man to step up and pay! If the real father is unknown or out of the picture, but you were involved with the woman around the same time period, the court will likely stick you with the bill!
ALIMONY
If the marriage fails, (50%, chance) you are stuck paying her for the rest of your life possibly! She may never remarry. She may just move in with a guy, or go through a series of other guys. Even if she wants to marry, she might not, in order to continue punishing you by requiring you to keep paying alimony. Pragmatically, she probably won’t remarry unless she perceives that her new mark is wealthier than you.
FALSE RAPE OR SEXUAL HARASSMENT CLAIMS
This problem is EXPLODING. According to some authorities, between 2% – 10% of claimed rapes turn out to be false. Women admit that they lied, and made it all up. Now women have begun claiming harassment if a man even asks one out on a date. If a man “stares,” at them too long, or if a man compliments them! The truth is that if a woman doesn’t like you, she can ruin your life based on a false allegation very easily. The mere unproven allegation could cost you your freedom, your job, and your reputation. “Always believe the victim,” and “women never lie about rape” are BULLSHIT, but they are accepted by the media, academia, and society at large.
I recently heard a woman complain that a man complimented her on the phone about her voice. The man doesn’t even have to be in crazy’s proximity for her to feel sexually violated. If a man is alone with a woman, how is he going to prove he DIDN’T grope her, if she says he did? JUST BEING ALONE WITH A WOMAN is a HUGE RISK! Talking to a woman at all is a huge risk. Can you prove you didn’t try to solicit her for sex? Can you prove you didn’t call her “sugar tits?” Remember, the woman is always believed, you are guilty until proven innocent (and even then still guilty as far as radical feminists are concerned!)
Some radical feminists even remarked that if a man is accused falsely of rape, he should ask himself, if he could have raped her. He should consider that she may have been raped by someone else. A man who goes to jail on a false rape conviction is likely to be raped himself. Do women care? No! Women who make false allegations against men are soulless MONSTERS! If a woman has been convicted of making a false rape allegation, and proven to have done so, please report her! These liars should be publicly shamed!
By falsely accusing men of rape, or other inappropriate behavior, women marginalize actual victims of rape and sexual harassment. They take away time, money, and attention from prosecuting actual rapists, who should be prosecuted. There have been cases of women claiming rape, even after they willingly went back to see their alleged “rapist,” again. In some cases, writing him complimentary notes, texts, or e-mails. If you were actually raped, here is a suggestion, don’t willingly see your rapist romantically long after the rape. It kind of undermines your credibility, you crazy bitch! That’s some free advice. I am sick of hearing about rape “victims,” who continued to see their rapist willingly long after.
Let’s call it what it is. If you let a man have sex with you, when you don’t want to, because he paid you, or offered you work, you are a WHORE! You sold your body. Regretting it isn’t the same as rape. Yes, it is disgusting. I don’t blame you for regretting it, but it isn’t rape. How many women willingly had sex with a man, only to feel disgusting and regret it the next morning, then decide it must have been rape? Women are CRAZY! This happens ALL THE TIME!
STDs AND SEX
About half of adults who have sex outside of marriage have an STD or will have one. Most women are sluts. They are literally giving out sex as if it were Halloween candy. They are having sex with complete strangers, and with men they barely know. Their bodies have been used, and emotionally they are unable to truly bond with you or love you because they have been with so many other men. You are just a penis to them, or a potential source of income and labor. Usually you are both. She will use you until she grows tired of you, or finds a new mark more to her taste, or with more money.
BIRTH CONTROL
“Birth Control” doesn’t work. Condoms fail at the rate of 18%. Even if you use birth control, all forms have a high failure rate. Besides the CDC stats, reviews on condom websites have some people saying they broke. It only has to fail once to get a disease. You can even get an STD just through kissing, never-mind sex.
Sometimes women lie about birth control, or about their ability to get pregnant. Many of the ones who say they are virgins, are probably lying at this point. Ever been in online chat rooms? Ask a woman her age. Very often she will change it later based on your answer. Women lie pathologically, all the time, about stupid things, and big things! Lying is second nature to most of them. They do it without even thinking about it.
ABORTION
A woman may abort your own unborn child, even at the moment of birth in some parts of the US! She can legally commit what we all know is a murder. Are you really ok with a woman murdering your child? Is it worth a few brief moments of pleasure? Look at the linked pictures. If that isn’t a murder, what is it? A baby was killed. Most women today are soulless monsters. If she is heartless and cold enough to take the life of her own baby based on convenience, what makes you think she won’t totally screw you over? Women today routinely champion abortion as their most important “right.” What does this say about their character?
Have you noticed how angry and vile women get when a man even questions the morality of abortion? They become screaming harpies. “HOW DARE YOU HAVE AN OPINION! You DON’T HAVE A UTERUS!” I am pretty sure there are some female doctors who have opinions about urology, yet they lack male reproductive organs. I don’t see men irrationally shouting them down. At this point, even expressing an opinion women don’t like, such as objecting to the murder of unborn babies, sends them into a screaming fit of hysteria and rage.
Why would anyone want to be with a creature like this? What could possibly be uglier than a woman becoming a screaming harpy, because a man objects to her murdering her own innocent baby? Most women today are DISGUSTING! Given what ugly people most women are inside, and how ugly they have made themselves, it is hard to understand why any man would want one.
CRAZY ABUSIVE MOTHERS
If she doesn’t murder your child, are you ok with some crazy woman raising your child? A woman who may beat, hit, and scream at your child daily? A woman who may have a borderline personality? A joyless, soulless woman, who thinks only of herself? IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO. The fact is a woman cannot have a baby without a man. If you impregnate crazy, you are also responsible for the suffering that your innocent child will endure. Don’t even risk it! It isn’t worth it!
CRAZY FEMALE TEACHERS
Most boys are sent to public schools. Most teachers are female, and the curriculum is overwhelmingly gynocentric. Arrogant, miserable, and crazy female “teachers” get their power-trip kicks by attempting to stifle and control boys. Some female teaches use their positions of greater power to sexually exploit or abuse them. Increasingly, more and more boys are being put on psychiatric drugs, in order to control them, and diminish their youthful exuberance and energy. Boys are being put on drugs for simply exhibiting normal boy behavior.
Asking a boy, especially a young one, to sit still in a class room all day is asking too much. It is a very unnatural and unhealthy environment, akin to a prison. The public school environment is abusive to boys. If you are a father, try to find a home-schooling cooperative, a private school, or an alternative charter school. Also consider online learning. Try to find a way that your son won’t be emotionally abused by women all day for his entire childhood! It is worth the expense and effort. Show that you are a more noble being than women by making the necessary sacrifices to protect your innocent children.
CHILD CUSTODY AND PARENTAL ALIENATION
If you put a baby in crazy, you may have to deal with crazy for 18 years! If you are divorced, she will likely try her hardest to alienate your children from you. She will tell them that you didn’t want to see them, speak to them, or even that you do not love them. She is a heartless monster!
If an ex girl friend or an ex wife hates you, most likely she WILL demand your children choose sides. She WILL tell your children lies about you. She WILL try her hardest to convince your children you are a scumbag. She wants them to hate you, and to side with her! Since courts in the US routinely award primary custody to the mother, she will get to work on these objectives MOST of the time. We can’t change the past, but we can change the future. Be smart, GO MGTOW Monk!
MALE BODILY INTEGRITY
Society routinely mutilates the genitals of baby boys shortly after birth. Would your wife do this? Or some other female, should your child pass into her custody? No baby boy should have his genitals mutilated without his consent! If an adult wants to do it for religious or other reasons, fine. At least he can make a choice. It should never be imposed upon ANY man however! It is a moral crime!
Consider how differently society treats male and female circumcision. Female circumcision is regarded as a horrific crime, an assault, and the mutilation of a young girl. I don’t disagree with this. Male circumcision, however, is regarded as acceptable. We live in a gynocentric society! Male pain and suffering do not matter to most people. They do not care about it at all! If a woman somewhere is victimized or hurt, strangers will come to her aid. If a man is, people think he should just shut up, or “man up.”
PHYSICAL ABUSE
Many crazy women physically abuse their husbands, in addition to verbal and emotional abuse. Men who are physically assaulted are often jailed if they dare to block female punches or defend themselves in any way. One in four women admit to using violence against a spouse! Most men will not fight back, even when violently attacked by a woman. They will make excuses for her, or enable her behavior. I personally know multiple men who were physically abused by wives or girl friends. It is VERY COMMON!
GET OUT NOW!
If you are in an abusive or unhealthy relationship with a woman, my advice is, don’t walk away, – RUN! GET OUT! Save yourself while you still can. DO NOT risk impregnating a cruel, hateful, abusive, and evil woman!
I ALREADY HAVE CHILDREN, I CAN’T ABANDON THEM TO CRAZY, SO I CAN’T DIVORCE NOW. WHAT DO I DO?
I sympathize with you. In that case, I advise you to get a vasectomy. They can be done as a minor out-patient surgery. There are no scars. Go away for a few days, explain it somehow. Perhaps you need to visit a relative, or go away for business temporary. Maybe a friend is moving and requires some assistance. Just get it done, and get it done by a competent doctor. (It is actually a crime in some countries for a man to get a vasectomy without getting his wife’s approval) Be smart and be careful. It would be a grave evil to create more innocent children who will suffer under the tyranny of crazy.
BUT NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT!
No. I don’t claim that ALL women are like most women. There are always exceptions. However, exceptions are few and far between. They are exceedingly rare. You could spend your whole life looking for one, and never find it. You could also be fooled. Most men who marry or play the relationship game are fooled. That is the truth. Sometimes the truth is unfortunate, or unpleasant. Do not deny reality. You will only suffer for it.
DOES MY RELIGION PERMIT ME TO BE A MGTOW MONK?
In the Book of Genesis, Eve leads Adam into sin, causing the fall of mankind. While allowing marriage, as a concession to human lusts, Paul and Jesus Christ, uphold celibacy for any man who can accept it! Christian marriage is patriarchal, and wives are told to obey their husbands. Siddartha Gautama left his wife, turned celibate, and become the Buddha. While a polygamist himself, Muhammad said that most of those in hell are ungrateful women. Many Hindus become celibate monks. Religion actually has a lot of truth about women. There is no reason you can’t be a religious MGTOW Monk. Many MGTOW Monks are also atheists or not religious. The bottom line is, you need to protect and care about yourself, no one else is going to!
Religion warns against casual sex with women, as it can bring great harm to men and to possible children conceived from it. Unfortunately, because most church-goers are women, most clerics today are cucks who preach a pro-feminist line. Men SHOULD LEAVE those churches! Find a non-hostile one if you can, or just worship at home instead! Whatever your religion is, or if you have no religion, you CAN be a MGTOW Monk! A MGTOW Monk is a man going his own way, who doesn’t have sex with women. ANY man can do this regardless of religion, race, nation, or cultural background. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Sometimes religions or some religious teachings, do come into conflict with MGTOW. I condemn circumcision, which is prescribed by some religions, as male genital mutilation. I also reject the idea that men must feel guilty, for even desiring women sexually in their minds. In my opinion, it is immoral for men to contribute to religious institutions which are gynocentric. Doing so makes one complicit in the suffering they perpetuate. Why not leave? You don’t need them, you can go your own way!
SHOULD MEN WATCH PORNOGRAPHY?
Pornography can mean many different things. Some people consider any nude photography or even paintings or statues of women to be pornography. On the other end, it can refer to people engaged in sexual intercourse, or other sexual acts. No decent man would want his daughter to sell sex for cash. Also, who wants to give money to undeserving women, who don’t respect men? In that light, there are ethical issues with buying hardcore pornography. However, any man with a computer and internet can obtain whatever he wants in terms of porn, absolutely free.
It is certainly preferable to a man going out and having sex with women, and infinitely more responsible. Porn won’t accuse him of rape or sexual harassment, infect him with an STD, betray him for someone else, or get pregnant and kill his baby. It won’t demand child support, or alimony, or commit paternity fraud! It won’t ask him to legally marry it, or ask to divorce him. He won’t get a mother-in-law from watching it. It also won’t nag him daily, or emotionally abuse him. When he is done watching it, he can shut it off. When he is tired, he doesn’t have to watch it. When he wants it, it is always there. If he needs it to be quieter, he can mute it. If he wants it to make a lot of noise, he can blast it at full volume.
Porn offers an infinite variety of women, and with a little effort, a man can find better looking women than he will meet in “real life.” Porn won’t get mad at you for looking at another woman. Monogamy was never a natural or normal state for men. All religions and cultures originally presupposed that men with the means would take more than one woman. Porn also doesn’t ask him to buy it a drink, or take it somewhere. With a little effort you can still find women with nice bodies, who aren’t covered in tattoos, or piercings. Who have natural hair colors, and who wax in those areas where hair is not desired.
The truth is, men’s sexual urges are incredibly strong. The vast majority of men choose to view porn. Unless a man strongly objects to it on religious grounds, he will almost certainly see it. The fact is that most young women also watch porn now. Most older women also enjoy porn. The old ones simply get it in other forms, such as romance novels. Women are just as sexual as men, and are more perverted in their preferences. Some studies now show that all men have watched porn. They could not find one who had not.
Some medical studies suggest that men who do not ejaculate are more prone to prostate cancer. MGTOW means men going their own way. Thus MGTOW Monks are free to make up their own minds on these issues. The reality is, most religious men also watch porn and masturbate. They just kept it a secret, or feel guilty about it. You shouldn’t feel guilty for being a man. Watching porn is more responsible than having sex with women. What about sex dolls, artificial vaginas, or even female sex robots? It is your choice.
Are some men addicted to porn? If a man watches all day and cannot work, or do anything else, then he has a problem. There are very few men like this however. Usually women only object to porn out of fear that men will see better looking women than themselves. They claim it creates “unrealistic expectations.” The objection presumes that men’s sexuality is not their own, and ultimately belongs to women. A man must not look at the most attractive women, for fear that he won’t be able to settle for a plain Jane, or enjoy her as much. The premise is based on presuppositions, or assumed goals.
Watching porn instead of being with real women isn’t natural! No, it is not. But neither is sitting in an office all day, nor is a gynocentric society, but we are stuck in one! One where women enjoy superior legal rights over those of men. One where men are forced to pay an ex-wife alimony, or child support, while having little to no rights over their child. A society where women murder unborn babies. Where women gripe if a man even looks at them. Where a woman can destroy a man’s entire life with a mere unproven accusation!
We do not live in a natural or a healthy world. About half the women have an STD now! It is now a question of which choices are the least damaging to you. The choices are yours, but I would urge you to thoughtfully consider your options. The consequences can be with you for life. I suggest a moderate and reasonable approach. Do not deny your sexuality completely, it is part of you. Give it an outlet for relief, but do not have sex, or romantic relationships at all.
MALE SEXUAL SHAMING
Men are objectifying women? Women ask to be objectified all the time by dressing and acting like sluts! Many women like to play the game of dressing and acting like a slut, then recoiling in horror if a man responds accordingly. As a wise man once said, “if you aren’t in business don’t advertise.” Take responsibility for your own choices.
If you are a woman who doesn’t want male sexual attention, don’t dress like a slut, don’t go to sleazy bars, or to drunken parties. Don’t go to a man’s apartment late at night that you just met. If you do those things, you are going to get male attention! Women keep doing those things over and over, then get upset that men hit on them, or assume that they want to have sex! Why are women so stupid, why can’t you learn from your behavior?
Women who dress like sluts, and then scream that men are looking at them are either crazy, or they just enjoy taunting men and playing games. Stop being a stupid cock-tease. Don’t come crying to me because men “stared” at you, or made you feel “uncomfortable.” You won’t get my sympathy! Most women today are nothing more than children trapped in adult bodies. They need to grow up!
YOU ARE A RAPE APOLOGIST!
That isn’t really a question, that is a statement, and a gravely mistaken one. For the record, I think that anyone who rapes anyone should be executed by the state, and would be in a perfect world! All rapists are monsters. Male or female. Rape is a horrible crime. Even stupid, slutty women, and completely irresponsible women should not be raped, because no one should be! I also oppose actual sexual harassment. That is, unwanted grabbing or touching of people without their consent, etc.
Women usually claim that MRA’s or MGTOWs are rape apologists dishonestly. They know perfectly well that we are not, but they want to attack us and demonize us. I don’t believe that even radical feminists could be this stupid! a MGTOW Monk by definition is a man who does not have relationships or sex. Hence the word “monk” in our name! If you think that MGTOW Monks are “rape apologists,” then you are a stupid bitch.
We do not want to have sex with you, or to be in a relationship, ok? We are not REMOTELY interested in you! That drives you crazy with anger doesn’t it? You want male attention in fact, so that you can spit in men’s faces, after they have given it to you! To reject you is the highest form of insult. To be disinterested in you is an unforgivable crime! The idea that some men are free of female domination and exploitation is intolerable to you! That is why you will commit any libel, and do absolutely anything to destroy us! Women are not just CRAZY, they are EGO-MANIACAL MEGALOMANIACS!
CAN I USE PROSTITUTES?
A better question is, SHOULD you? No! Scroll up and read about FALSE RAPE AND SEXUAL HARASSMENT claims, STDs, BIRTH CONTROL, and ABORTION. It is a horrible idea, and absolutely not worth it. Most whores want a FORTUNE, for not very much. Additionally, most prostitutes hate men, and just want to separate them from their money. Many post fake pictures online. They give a man dishonest compliments to flatter him, then when the money dries out, they are gone. Leaving the man feeling worse off than he was before. There are many risks associated with it. You cannot be a MGTOW Monk and hire prostitutes.
WHAT ABOUT USING PUA TECHNIQUES TO PICK UP WOMEN?
Gynocentric people conflate MRAs, MGTOWs, MGTOW Monks, and Incels, with PUAs (Pick Up Artists.) A PUA is a man who tries to learn techniques to pick up women and use them for sex. That is the OPPOSITE of what a MGTOW Monk wants to do! Giving women money for sex, is just worshiping at the altar of the matriarchy. It is self destructive behavior of the highest order. Meeting women at bars or clubs, and trying to talk them into sex, is stupid and self destructive. Not only does a man assume huge risks, but he loses a great deal of money and time he can never get back, for very little reward, if any.
We regard this as stupid and wrong behavior. Roosh V, the most famous of the PUAs, has admitted that he’s been unhappy, despite having sex with allegedly, hundreds of women over the years, and making the acquisition of cheap and meaningless tail his life’s purpose! It really proves that lots of sex with lots of women does not make men happy! The truth is, women’s vaginas are not plated with solid gold! When a woman opens her legs, healing rays of light do not shoot out of her pussy. Women are not God, contrary to what white-knights may have told you!
Ultimately, Roosh realized that women didn’t love him, and didn’t care about him. Going from one unhealthy extreme to the other, Roosh now claims that he wants to get married! The only constant with Roosh V, is that women are always the ultimate goal! In some form or another, they are thought to bring redemption! They are a false god though, and their devotees will be disappointed! Real women are nothing like the image that day-dreaming lonely incels have built up in their minds. Usually, the best cure for wanting a woman, is to spend lots of time with women! Incels feel they can’t live without women. They literally don’t know what they are talking about!
HOW DO MGTOW MONKS DIFFER FROM MRA MEN?
An MRA largely knows the truth about men and women. However, he may not go so far as to reject relationships with women. In their defense, most MRA men are senior citizens. (No offense guys, you have a lot of wisdom that you have imparted to me.) I respect many MRA leaders for their sound advice and analysis. However, I think that because most MRA men are so much older, they really don’t realize that in the younger age bracket, it is virtually impossible to find a decent woman.
ARE THE SEXES EQUAL?
One thing that I strongly disagree with most MRAs on, is equality between the sexes. Many MRAs are true egalitarians. They will insist that it is good for women to vote, and to be able to own property, and to choose who they want to marry. They generally say this is equality, and equality is good. Warren Farrell exemplifies this view. I could not disagree more strongly. Warren believes that women were once unfairly denied opportunities. I disagree, I believe that the past denial was fair and appropriate, given their nature.
Women are not equal with men. Women are fundamentally different from men. MRAs will say that women are “adults.” They are not, at least not emotionally, and not intellectually. To expect them to act like it, is to ask the impossible. A woman is half-demon and half-child. Anyone who disagrees, is either in denial, or hasn’t been around enough women. Most men love to lie to themselves about women. They can’t handle the truth. It is too frightening for them to comprehend. If I am right, the world has gone radically off track for the last several hundred years, in terms of female policy.
Women never were responsible adults, and never could be successfully made into them. Giving women the vote was one of the stupidest things that men ever did! The majority of women inevitably vote for the worst parties and candidates! Men who are keen observers of female nature, have always understood that women lack the intellectual maturity to properly exercise the same legal rights that men do. Women are less intelligent, highly emotional, impulsive, irrational, illogical, irresponsible, short-sighted, and ill-tempered. “Adult” women today are spoiled, willful, and petulant children! To call women equals with men would be hilarious, if doing so didn’t have such dangerous consequences.
Deep down, I think that most rank and file MRA men know that women are not equal with men. I think they are just too terrified to to admit it, even to themselves. All of history shows that women are not capable of the same achievements as men. If you take any office, and put just one or two women in, around crunch time, they will go absolutely nuts! They will make everyone miserable. Women always bring their personal emotional baggage into the work place. They create drama, through imagined wrongs. Women imbue hostility, where none exists, projecting their own ugliness onto everyone else. Female emotions corrupt and contaminate everything around them.
WORKING WITHIN THE SYSTEM?
It should be noted that some MRAs are friendly toward MGTOW, and not against it. Another aspect of the MRA position, that differs from MGTOW, is the faith of some MRAs that somehow we may be able to work within the system to “change” it. To even allow for this possibility, is to be in denial as to the severity of the problem. It would probably take a global thermonuclear war, that destroys most life on earth, for that to occur. Thus allowing humans to reconstitute themselves along natural lines, in order to fix this mess. It is that entrenched, and we are that corrupt!
ARE SOME MRA OR MGTOW MEN PIGS? YES, AS IN ALL GROUPS THERE ARE GOOD AND BAD! UNLIKE FEMINISTS, I AM HONEST ENOUGH TO ADMIT IT!
Some MRAs think that if a man impregnates a woman, because she can kill her baby through abortion, he should have the right to legally opt out of fatherhood. Only a thoroughly dishonorable man would impregnate a woman, and then abandon his own child, or demand a legal right to do so. Men who pressure women to abort their child, or pay them to do it, are also scum. Some men sometimes DO despicable things, I will call them out on it. Of course there are bad men too, but not as many as bad women! Men who defend abortion, abandoning their children, or “pump and dump” are trash.
We can’t condemn women for being sluts or bad mothers, and then give men a pass for the same behavior. I am amused when I read PUA websites. I often hear women referred to as sluts and whores. Yet, PUAs want women to be sluts and whores! They are all about “pump and dump.” This doesn’t make any sense. If whores are bad, why are you making your life’s goal, getting whores to have sex with you? Yes, whores are trash, so why are you trying to have sex with them? Why are you taking them out to dinner, or to dance? Why are you keeping whores in business? MGTOW Monks want no part of this!
HOW DO MGTOW NON-MONKS DIFFER FROM MGTOW MONKS?
I have met quite a few men who identify as MGTOW, but who are actually MGTOW Monks, upon questioning them. A MGTOW non-monk, is a man who has basically sworn off relationships with women, but not completely. He may still try to casually date women, hoping to get sex. He may try to visit prostitutes, if he is really lost. These are things we regard as self-destructive, and are against. Many of these men will see the error of their ways and ultimately become MGTOW Monks.
A small number of self described MGTOW men, may really be PUAs, who are using the name MGTOW falsely, or who are confused. You cannot be gynocentric, and still be a man going your own way. A MGTOW, or MGTOW Monk may or may not be a virgin. Some are, some are not. None of us were born knowing the truth. I am a proud virgin myself. I regard staying a virgin as one of the smartest decisions I have ever made. No one can shame me for doing what I know is right, or not doing what I know is wrong. I wear it as a badge of honor. Society doesn’t tell me what is good or bad, or cool or uncool, I decide that for myself! I am a free man, I am not a pawn in society’s game!
WHAT ARE INCELS?
An incel is a male (young or college age) who is absolutely obsessed with wanting sex, a relationship, and validation from women! This is an unhealthy obsession that causes them to become very depressed. Unfortunately, some commit suicide. A couple have become terrorists. This is a very destructive and harmful belief system, that we strongly condemn. The obvious answer to this depressing and self-destructive belief system is for Incels to become MGTOW Monks! Once you don’t care, you don’t care! The problem is solved.
An Incel is convinced that a relationship with a woman is the greatest thing in the world. An incel is also usually a virgin, the name means, involuntarily celibate. An incel either has no relationship experience with women at all, or very little. That is the only way that a male can idolize women, and put them on a pedestal to the extent that Incels do. An incel, instead of defining his own terms for success, like MGTOW Monks do, allows a subset of society to define success for him. He is convinced he is a loser, unless he gets female validation, and dates women. Of course women smell the desperation on him, and the fear of rejection, so they reject him over and over, causing him to spiral into deeper and deeper depression.
Some Incels will wake up and eventually become MGTOW, or MGTOW Monks. Some will continue to talk to the same group of other depressed incels every day, and stay in their rut forever, or until it ultimately destroys them. They need to get out of that stupid echo-chamber of reinforced failure, and self-hatred! Unfortunately, we cannot save Incels. However, we can invite them to save themselves! An incel should consider that that their gynocentric fantasies about who and what women are, may not be true! Incels should be encouraged to talk to men with actual relationship experience, who can enlighten them. Ask yourself this, do most women seem like kind people, people worthy of your love, or effort?
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO AN INCEL?
To use Incel terminology, Stacy is a heartless lying slut. She isn’t worth your time. She doesn’t love anyone but herself. She is a stupid bitch! She only hurts men. Chad is a sucker, he is about to get dumped, divorced, diseased, or otherwise ruined by Stacy. You do NOT want to be Chad. You do NOT want Stacy, unless you are NUTS! Instead of obsessing over the “pretty popular girls,” and the “cool guys” who get the girls, why not move beyond petty Child-Teen public school social dynamics? You need to grow and mature! Leave childish things behind.
Why not define success in life in your own terms? It shouldn’t be defined by who gets to have meaningless superficial relationships with stupid and superficial girls. It shouldn’t be defined by popularity among your dumb peers. It shouldn’t be defined by who has the most money. Ironically, most female feminists also accept society’s definition of success, that’s why most are trying to climb the corporate ladder! In the end, feminists too bow before the golden calf! Materialism is ultimately unfulfilling. Money can come and go. Peer popularity is temporary and transient as well.
What makes a man great? Having real principles, having integrity. Being a person who stands up and says what he thinks, regardless of what most people will say. A man who is free, a man who is his own man. A man who doesn’t let others impose their value systems upon him, but who decides for himself what to believe, what to do, and how to live. A man who lives the values that he believes in. A man who chooses his own destiny. Look at yourself, who are you? What do you want to do? Where do you want to go? Discover who YOU are! Go MGTOW Monk!
WHAT DO YOU THINK OF MEN WHO HAVE COMMITTED MATRIMONY, OR ENTERED RELATIONSHIP SLAVERY?
Most married men, or men in long term relationships, are little more than slaves to their wives or girl friends. They do what she wants to do. They buy what she wants to buy. Major life decisions are all decided by her. They have lost control of their lives. They are not respected. They are not loved. They are like the dads in tv sitcoms. They are regarded as saps by society. Everyone knows this is true, especially women! She Who Must Be Obeyed, is a brutal task master, and she keeps her prisoners on a short choke chain!
I have sympathy for men who have made this mistake. That is why I don’t want anymore to make it! Observe some men who are in a relationship, most of them are like imprisoned animals in a zoo. They are sadly looking through artificial metal bars, yearning to be free, watching the world around them, but unable to decide their own destiny! They live with the dark shadow of the matriarchy over them at all times! They can’t go where they want to go, do what they want to do, or explore the world around them!
I WENT MGTOW MONK, NOW WHAT?
Congratulations. You are now part of a great international brotherhood of men who know the truth. Our numbers are growing steadily. By taking this step, you have our respect, and you have shown yourself to be an intelligent man of integrity and discernment. Now you can respect yourself. You can also protect yourself! You aren’t taking anymore shit from the matriarchy in your personal life!
You are seceding from the gynocracy! You are becoming your own man! Talk to some divorced men, some falsely accused men, or some enslaved men who committed matrimony, if you want to know the full significance of your decision! Free at last, free at last, thankfully you are free at last! You should run around the block and then do a victory dance! You may have just saved your life, and dodged some major bullets! You can and should feel very proud! 🙂
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